It Doesn’t Have to Break The Bank : 4 Budget Friendly Winter Date Ideas

It Doesn't Have to Break The Bank - 4 Budget Friendly Winter Date Ideas

We all know how draining the holidays can be to our pockets. It seems Christmas keeps getting more expensive the older we get!  But that doesn’t mean that you can’t treat your mate to a quality date though ( trust me I reformatted this sentence 4x’s trying not to sound cheesy. Didn’t work) ! If you’re looking […]

Baby, It’s Cold! : How To Cope With Curves


This is the relaunch of Savagely Yours, where we’ve committed to give you life- as WE know it. So yes, I went there. Curving, like most fads, is an old concept made fresh with new terminology. What exactly is curving?  Curving could be a number of things like ignoring, subtle disregards, and of course, harsh […]

Relationships: Reasons Why Men & Women Don’t Commit #SYCommit – Featuring The Silent Savage

Relationships- Reasons Why Men & Women Don't Commit - Featuring The Silent Savage

Why Women Don’t Commit Let’s be honest or “lez-be-an-est” however you want to read it , 80% of women are more open to commitment than men. That’s just my opinion. It isn’t a scientific fact, but hey those are my thoughts on the matter.  I can start by saying that I don’t have the most […]

Food For Thought: Is Rap Ruining Our Lives? ( Part 2: Rap & Relationships)

Food For Thought- Is Rap Ruining Our Lives-Part 2- Rap & Relationships

Continuing in our  ”Is Rap Ruining Our Lives” series … today we tackle Rap and Relationships! Whew, this like stated in our post previously is by no means a scientific proven effect from listening to rap music; but more my personal opinion.  Agree with it or not , I’d love to read your thoughts so […]

Relationships: 4 Fun Summer Date Ideas ( for your man specifically )

Relationships- 4 Fun Summer Date Ideas

Take your man out!  Most men will admit that they want to be treated like kings, yes. …. While courting/dating  it’s important to show him how into him you are too. What better way to do that than a date? Pick him up , take him out, pay for it. Simple. Don’t take my […]

The Post-Grad Life: Relationships

The Post-Grad Life- Relationships

Graduation! This point in your life might just be the greatest time…ever. The feeling of accomplishment that overcomes  you when receiving your degree is indescribable. On top of that, there is a newfound freedom that is felt once you realize that  you are so that much closer to actualizing your dreams. While in the midst of such a great […]

From the Desk of Mr. Savage: Answering Your Questions


It seems that men and women are on two completely different frequencies when it comes to numerous things ( yeah , Duh I know). Here at Savagely Yours, we decided that it would be good for me, Mr. Savage, to answer whatever questions you have from my POV ( point of view). Every month I […]

Food For Thought: Sex & Spirituality – Views On The @EssenceMag “Single, Sexy & Saved” Article

Food For Thought- Sex & Spirituality - Views On The @EssenceMag Single, Sexy & Saved Article

(I apologize in advanced for the length , but it had to be talked about) Um yes. You read that title correctly. I was recently drawn to this article written by Charreah K. Jackson in the March 2013 edition of Essence Magazine by a small but noticeable title on the cover that read “Yes, You […]

Food For Thought: Society’s Acceptance of the Side Chick


The Side Chick — it’s a loaded term. Some side chick relationships are complex, extremely complex. Some are simple, . What does it even mean anymore? Nobody really knows, but when the head of the CIA is out here getting caught up behind The Side Chick we have to questions how it got here. Scandal, […]

Relationships: Questions Answered From A Man’s Perspective Part I


As the title explains.. I’ve got some tea to share that I have brewing for almost 2 weeks now. The Savagely Yours team got to ask a good friend of mine some burning questions that I am sure most women want to ask  men , but sometimes don’t want to jeopardize judgement being passed on […]

Music: 5 Sultry R&B Songs To Prepare For Cuffing Season


Hi Savages — It’s official, Fall is here! As the temperature begins to drop and the leaves begin to change their makeup we prepare for the Fall and Winter Seasons. In Black America we know the collective of theses seasons as the infamous Cuffing Season. The tentative dates are said to be anywhere starting from […]

Relationships: (Part II) When Being Good Enough, Sometimes Isn’t Good Enough…

(Part II) When Being Good Enough, Sometimes Isn't Good Enough

Hello Cuties! I’m sure you all enjoyed Ashley’s explanation of characterized men in our lives through the infamous “Is He Your Butler, Baker or Pharaoh ?”  Well welcome to the follow up… Part II! I’ve realized that  women not only need to know what type of man they are investing time in, they also need to be aware of the positions they’re placing themselves […]

Relationships: Is He Your Butler, Baker or Pharaoh ?

Is he your butler, Baker, or pharaoh

Happy Tuesday! So since we know that alot of women are going through relationship problems in their 20 sumthings we’ve decided to start a relationship series for the month of July. We hope that we will help you in some capacity while on your journey !! After recent events in my life I sat down […]

Relationships: He’s Just Not That Into You…

Relationships: He's Just Not That Into You...

LADIES! Have you ever found yourself wondering “Does he really like me?” or “Where is this going?” …. if your response is YES, then my answer to you is….. HE’S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU! Yeah. Yea. You’re now thinking that I have no clue of what I’m talking about, and that I don’t understand the situation.  […]